Some divorcee v-day thoughts and observations

Posted on Feb 14, 2017 | 0 comments

Nothing too related to the day, but the subject is relationships, people, that’s what today is all about, and I’ve got some free time to write, so why not? 😉

  • People treat you as if divorce is a disease they don’t want to catch. It’s not a lot of people, but there is definitely a stigma attached. Fortunately, just about half of everyone has been divorced so there are also a plethora of folks who get it and pass no judgement.
  • Friends you had met through or with your former spouse who are no longer friends. They actually unfriend you or seemingly put you on mute. My divorce was not the tidiest in the world, but these folks are all working with half a story (at most) and making a full judgement with it. That’s unfortunate, but probably not the type of person you want to be friends with anyway.

A quick Googling tells me these are not original thoughts.

Be cool, don’t be judgey, I’m out [to ride my bike and eat pizza and drink wine and watch Netflix ALL NIGHT LONG].